You are not only talking about the death of a loved one but also about how that person lived their lives. Funeral poems do not need to be sad or tearful, as long as they reflect the character of the person you have lost.
A eulogy that presents itself well is one that displays the humorous and loving nature of the deceased. The audience for your funeral speech couldn't be more sympathetic and welcoming, and your deep feelings for the person who died will make the eulogy powerful. Many short poems exemplifies the theme of reassurance to the living that death is not the cessation of life but a continuation.
And if all of your practice fails and you cry, that is alright too. People should realize through the poem that they lived with a kind soul and great person. It is, in fact, acceptable to include humorous moments in a eulogy.
As hard as it may seem right now, it gets better. Don't worry if it runs just a bit longer, take a deep breath and try to relax.
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