One reason for the elaborate ceremonies around death is to help with that loss. Something they know would make the deceased proud to hear of.
In trying times it can be a struggle to keep your composure, however making notes will help you focus. While some families choose to have a viewing followed by a service at the funeral home, others will hold a funeral at a house of worship. Think of it as writing a speech.
This is all very hard to do in the little amount of time you are actually giving the speech. You only have one chance to collect everyone s memories. A Celebrant is trained to help individuals create and present a personalized funeral, memorial or celebration of life service.
As hard as it may seem right now, it gets better. It is important that you avoid any statements or references that portray the deceased in a negative manner.
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